Answer: A major reason why society can no longer communicate effectively?
Question: What is FACEBOOK!
I do spend more time than I care to admit on Facebook. It is entertaining to be the voyeur and live vicariously through other peoples posts, pics & comments. But as time goes on, I realize that Facebook is the beginning of the end of communication as we know it.
When I first joined FB, I used it as a tool for promotion for my band & my job as a makeup artist. What a perfect way to reach many people in just one post! I still, to this day, use it as a tool. Not a confessional. When did it become OK to post your most personal issues for all the FB world to see? Again, I am guilty of scrolling through the minutia for a laugh but I am sometimes totally stunned by what people will put out there!
Amidst the regular FB members are a variety of characters:
The Lurker : one that watches... but never posts
The Show Off: Look at me & how great I am.. Tell me how great I am!
The Instigator: Posting things for shock value for reaction
The Pity Seeker: Poor me, please comment & boost my ego
And the worst of all offenders: The Coward!!!
I know you have all seen these posts. If you have a problem with someone or something shouldn't you deal with it face to face? Putting ambiguous posts on Facebook is not going to solve anything, and in fact, usually makes the problem worse. This is the worst type of post, in my opinion. You know who your are directing the post to, but fail to mention them by name. It's like a big guessing game. (on top of ridiculous & immature) This is as bad as texting someone to tell them that you are pregnant, fired or you want to break up with them. When did we all lose our spine? Social media has provided a platform for all of us to hide behind and be tough. What happened to honesty & the truth? (and growing a pair?) I mean, some situation require an actual sit-down, don't they? Not a text, FB message or email on whim...
It is like High School all over again. Posting things & waiting for approval, likes, comments & validation. I have watched actual FB fights via comments. Have you ever seen this? Adults bantering back & forth on FB.. not to each other, but virtually. I understand some people get off on shock value, but does anyone out there see this as a problem? It's disturbing to me.
When are we all going to realize that true communication needs to come directly from our mouths and not our electronic devices? Now, I am not saying that you need to have diarrhea of the mouth every time you open up, but when it comes to the important things in life, don't we owe that to each other? I may have not liked everything that my parents told me, but I am the better for it. I would choose the hard truth over sugar-coating any day.
I have to admit, I too have become a victim of this "virtual lack of sac." We all have been happy, at one time or another, to send an email, text or FB message instead of making a difficult phone call or speaking to someone face to face. It's part of the generation. All I am saying is that is this the end of communication as we know it? Is the real digital zombie apocalypse is upon us?
I enjoy Facebook for its entertainment value, not as a virtual soapbox. Random thoughts & feelings have a place out there, but personal attacks do not.
I guess what I'm getting at is that the way we communicate is forever changed. In turn, this has made us weaker as a society. Adults fighting like kids on FB, kids getting bullied via text; it is a breeding ground for the cowardly and insecure. We do not have to stand up to anyone anymore..we can just call them out on FB....in code, of course.