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Friday, April 12, 2013

Baby's Got BUSH Back!

I think it's time for part II. According to my blog stats the masses have spoken.  Sure I have written about love, sex, religion and other thought-provoking topics.  But the one post that rules all others, and apparently is the most important, is my piece on BIKINI WAXING? Yes, my friends, this is what gets you page views.  Since February 11, 2011 my entry titled Mind Your Own Bikini's Wax has gotten a whopping 43,488 reads!! WOW!  It is the only post I have that is read and shared every single day.  This is what inquiring minds want to know about I guess... Thank you..i think.

Looking through the lady-carpets of time you will be happy to know that BUSH is back! Yes, say bye-bye to the Brazilian (or what I refer to as the creepy 6 year old.)  According to a recent study, men prefer hair down there. (make up your minds will you guys?) After reading numerous posts on the subject I am thrilled to hear this news.  I think a little something-something down there is sexy. Landing strip, triangle or heart shape pussy galore.. whatever you like girls! In the words of Amanda Smash Hyde, proclaimed "vagina waxer to the porn stars," women are "choosing hair over bare!"  Ms. Hyde also proclaims the "no one should tell you how to wear your bush." (really, that is an actual quote, lol) Now that's a hell of a career.  She must be exhausted!

I have performed my share of bikini waxing, and let me tell you, it ain't pretty.  It's a very tricky area;  all sorts of curves & angles.. Think about it.. Sure, the front is an easy area to clean up, but that damn Brazilian includes some not-so-sexy places. Let's just leave it at that.  I have also gotten a Brazilian done ONCE and it was the most comical & painful thing I have every experienced.  The wax room is the only place that it is acceptable to ask your client to:  "Pull your legs over your head and hold them there? and then "get on your knees?  Head down ass up..It was like 50 Shades of Grey but the pain was NOT pleasurable.  We've all been there girls, right? But now we are free!  Free to let our hair down, if you will.

After years of ripping, bruising and tiding up the kitty it's time for a little love and care.  A new trend that is sweeping muff nation is the Vajacial. I'm not making this up. It's like a facial for the vag.  It is growing in popularity, so much so that ABC news did a piece on it.  Yes, this is what is necessary in life.  My life is complete!!! In this "treatment" your love cupcake is cleansed, gently exfoliated, ingrown hairs are removed (ouch!) to reveal a smooth & sexy new you.  I can imagine spa owners trying to introduce this service to their staff.  "OK girls, we are now doing Vajacials.  Who wants to let me do a demo on them?" What does one charge for such a service? WTF?  Honestly, this sounds like a rub & tug for women, but that's just me.  What will they think of next? 

So whether you are Team Bare or Team Hair, it's good to know that you will have all the bases covered when tending to lady parts. This is your beauty correspondent signing out... Good luck!

Wednesday, January 30, 2013


While dealing with my recent insomnia, I have been reading a lot of really "helpful" magazines.  The most recent was a special edition to my Real Simple subscription, Real Simple "Family" Addition.  I SO enjoy reading about over-achieving parents, mothers-of-the-year and 10 ways to get vomit out of the carpet. (in this case, it was my own, after reading some of these articles.)

Like we need more written proof that we are not feeding our children the right foods, don't have enough play dates scheduled and that we don't know how to make Moroccan chicken and quinoa.  I'm exhausted!  I can't keep up with the laundry, never mind the Jones'.  How am I supposed to compete with this stuff? 

There was an article about "how to keep your sanity in your over scheduled life."  Note to self: stop doing everything!  A mother of 4 boys lets us into her tidy, post-it-note reminder, brown-bagged lunch existence. Her 3 darling boys play or are committed to at least 2 activities each and her life is spent driving them to & from sports, music lessons, Chinese jump rope training & cupcake decorating 101.  Is she insane? She says it is a challenge but worth it when she sees the smiles on their faces.  (Unfortunately, she hasn't smiled since 2006)

Now the "modern" mom can handle all these tasks with the greatest of ease. I mean, this is why we have children, right? (feeling the sarcasm there??) To put aside our own lives and tend to their every whim, want & desire until...when? Eternity?  This is NOT what I signed up for.  It is an interesting topic.   Where do our wants, needs & desires fit into this endless parade of obligation? (Once again, that Catholic guilt is taking over here while I write). What kind of selfish person has children & doesn't sign them up for soccer, Viola & conversational Japanese classes at 4 years old?  ME!  (Oops, I didn't get that memo.)

Now, I am not saying that children do not need activities in their lives.  Of course they do! What I am saying is when is enough..too much?  Sports & activities are no longer limited to the weekdays.  They have now taken over weeknights & weekends as well. I mean, even God rested on the 7th day, right?  There is no day of rest.  No wonder the family unit has deteriorated.  Family dinner?  Yeah, right.  You have to make 3 different meals to coincide with everyones schedule.

It is tough enough to just be a parent.  Now add in the pressure of being a "good" parent.  What does that mean anyway?  Who decides if you are a good parent? Who are we trying to impress?  I would like to say that I am not swayed by other mothers to do certain things, but that would be a lie.  I am, just like most of us, concerned with not only the reality but also the perception of my parenting skills.  It sounds juvenile, but its true.  But at the end of the day, it is what it is.  I am not like any other mother.  I am me.  I do things in my life that other parents might consider silly, selfish & irresponsible.  I am not mother of the year, nor do I want to be.  It sucks to endlessly have to second guess yourself.  

So, as I continue to read the 5 different uses for a lemon, all I can think of is squeezing one into a huge glass of vodka and chain smoking in the garage. Thank you for your help, Real Simple, Family Addition!

Guess I won't be featured in the next addition....